Patricia Grace (Burke) O’Hare passed away on Wednesday, August 12, 2020; she was 81 years old. She is survived by her loving husband Gary O’Hare; her sons, James O’Hare (Kimberly) and Michael O’Hare; and daughters, Diane Kaullen (Christopher) and Deborah Walker (David). Patricia had eight grandchildren: Christopher, Reid, Mitchell, Megan, Grant, Max, Brooke, and Michael; six great-grandchildren: Colin, Myka, Mitchell, Kayn, Scarlett, and Camden; sister Lorraine Lasater; and many nieces and nephews. Patricia is preceded in death by her parents, Arthur and Grace Burke, and her siblings Carol, Kenneth (Bonnie), Priscilla, Arthur (Joy), and William (Susan).
Patricia was born in Salem, Massachusetts, on December 17, 1938. Along with her family she relocated to Missouri, where she completed her education. She went on to retire from the State of Missouri after a rewarding career in public service. Patricia enjoyed directing local plays, which she did for many years. She was also involved year-round with charitable activities where she selflessly donated her time and care. Patricia enjoyed spending time with her family as well as her friends. She always made time for each of her family members making sure all knew they are loved. Patricia brought with her a spirit of fun and lightheartedness, accompanied with great compassion. She also cherished her friends who all brought her much joy. She will be forever remembered, loved, and missed.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, August 28th at 2:00 p.m. to – , at the Blue Springs Elks Lodge #2509, located at 100 NE Brizendine Road, Blue Springs, MO 64014.
In lieu of flowers, please feel free to make a donation in her memory to any charity of your choice. Ideas for charities may include the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Salvation Army, or the Elks Foundation.
Arrangements: Royer Funeral Home, Oak Grove, MO 816-690-4441
Larry Wyrick
23 Aug 2020Gary sorry to hear about Pat
Rick Huffman
23 Aug 2020Gary, sorry about Pat’s passing. Give me a call.
Dick & Carol Stuart
23 Aug 2020We will never forget where our Friendship began at Bel-Air Swim Club many years ago..
So much fun with such a great person.
She was always willing to help with anything and so was Gary.
She and Gary have raised a great Family…
She will be missed.
Thinking of all of you at this most difficult time!
Ron Cox
23 Aug 2020Gary, I am so very sorry to hear of you lose. Losing a spouse of so many years is losing a giant part of yourself. I will not be able to attend the “Celebration Of Life” on Friday because of other family commitments, but you and your family will be in my prayers. A fond memory of Pat was when we ran a 5K race. We were far behind the contenders and were huffing and puffing, so at the end we sat outside of the awards room and we each enjoyed a smoke.
Patricia Crawford
25 Aug 2020Gary, words can not express and neither will they ease the pain of losing a spouse. Memories will never fade of Patricia. Be thankful that you both had beautiful years together. My condolence and prayer is that you all stay strong and support each other. May God be with you and family at such a time as this.