Gretchen G. Buxter, 71, of Independence, Missouri, passed away Friday, August 14, 2020, surrounded by her loving family.
Gretchen was born on August 27, 1948, in Independence, Missouri. She was preceded in death by her parents, Charles and Edith (Acree) Kelley. She was one of four children. One sister preceded her in death, Jule Kelley; surviving siblings are Patricia White and Kevin Kelley.
Her survivors include her husband of 48 years, James E. Buxter. Gretchen and James were married on June 3, 1972, at First Christian Church of Independence. She is also survived by her three children: Kelli Aulgur, Holly Cruz, and Brian Buxter (Tisha); five grandchildren: Tony (CJ), Tiarra, Talon, Paige and Samantha; and one great-grandchild: Marlee.
Gretchen was a stay-at-home mom when her children were young. As her children grew, she worked a variety of jobs, most notably as a medical billing specialist, always taking time to make great friends with the people she worked with. She enjoyed planning holiday meals and making special candy treats for her grandkids. She loved caring for her animals and being surrounded by her loved ones. Her passion in life was traveling, sharing adventures with her family, and planning special trips with her loving husband.
Arrangements: Royer’s New Salem, Independence, MO 816-796-8600
Mendy
19 Aug 2020I worked with Gretchen and shared so much fun and laughter . I adored her for who she was and we became great friends during her Medical Billing days. I am terribly sad that I allowed myself to become distant after she left the company.
I truly enjoyed being around her, she was an amazing and talented individual. My heart is sad, but when I close my eyes, I can see her smiling with that twinkle in her eye. Rest peacefully my friend, watch over your family and help guide them through their sorrows. Let them share their memories that they created with you and keep you alive forever.
Latosha Creacy
20 Aug 2020I am glad to have known Gretchen. She was kind, thoughtful and caring. She was sure to put a smile on your face with her sense of humor.
I will miss her dearly and wish that I could tell her how special she was to me. I am heartbroken that I will not get to see again the bright smile she offered so readily.
To her Jim, her children, and grandchildren I send my condolences and prayers of comfort. In the seven years of knowing her, it was clear that she loved you all fiercely.
Goodbye my Friend, I love you and will remember you always.