Patrick (Pat) George Diecidue Jr., 67, of Oak Grove, Missouri died unexpectedly on May 03, 2020. He was born in Kansas City, Missouri, on June 13, 1952, to Patrick and Helen Diecidue.
One of Pat’s earliest achievements was obtaining his Eagle Scout with the Tribe of Mic-O-Say. He also spent many summers mentoring young scouts at H. Roe Bartle Scout Camp.
After graduating from Raytown High School, Pat joined the Marines serving as Staff Sergeant until August of 1977. He then started an apprenticeship in the Carpenters Union and became a journeyman four years later. This became his lifelong occupation.
Pat was an avid hunter and hunted all over the world. He loved nothing more than going on a good hunt, especially with his son Alex. He was a member of the Safari Club for many years and served as a past President.
One of his greatest enjoyments was being a grandfather. Papa loved nothing more than time spent with his grandkids and was looking forward to welcoming another grandson in July.
Pat never met a stranger and would gladly give you the shirt off his back. He had a great sense of humor (much to the chagrin of his wife) and had a smile that would light up a room. His magnetic personality made him the person you gravitated towards.
He is survived by his loving wife of 36 years, Sheryl Diecidue; his mother, Helen Diecidue; three sisters: Joan (Michael) Mellor, Carla (Kim) McClure, and Ginger (Jeff) Kaestner; four children: Jenny Connor (Aaron), Anthony Diecidue, Jordan Beck (Matt), and Alex Diecidue (Nicole); six grandchildren: Dylan, Abby, Cameron, Brandon (Connor), Peyton, and Thea (Beck); and a grandson due in July (Alex and Nicole).
Arrangements: Royer Funeral Home, Oak Grove, MO 816-690-4441
Dennis Walker
11 Jun 2020Although Pat and I have been out of touch the past few years, I think of him often. Pat and I go way back to our early years at United Acoustics. Sometimes it felt like we more like brothers than just friends. Pat Senior and Helen always made me feel welcome in their home, and at their lake house, and Senior being a co owner of United would often come to the job site, and give me a stern talking to, though we both knew I didn’t need it. Pat Jr. and I worked together, partied together, hunted together, coached our sons soccer team together, and often had serious talks about what was going on in our lives. That’s why I loved him like a brother. I will miss his smile and big bear hugs. Sheryl, Jenny, Anthony, Jordan, Alex, Joan, Carla, Ginger, and Helen, I love you all, and am so sorry for your loss.
Alan
11 Jun 2020Thanks for the advice when I was joining the Marines back in 1973. Thanks for driving me around in your “go-fast” truck when I was but 17. Thanks for hunting with my father, something he very much enjoyed. Thanks for the smiles.
Cheryl
11 Jun 2020I lived in the Diecidue neighborhood. i have wonderful memories of the Diecidue family home life and Pat Jr had a good one. He turned me on to the music of the Doors. I remember him and Nanu (cigar & all) making homemade ice cream. i remember the rum pot of fruit on the counter and how we thought we were consuming alcohol! I remember hearing the phone calls made to Pat, big Pat, little Pat, Sr, Jr? I hope memories like mine will help you girls get through this difficult time. Peace and Love to each of you.
Mickie Sandman
11 Jun 2020I had only known Pat for a few years but he deeply imprinted his happy smile, his care for others, and his generous spirit.. I was the only ‘girl’ on the crew and Pat was always eager to make certain I was included and challenged, willing to share his knowledge. When he learned that I was facing surgery, he called to with his prayers and good wishes before – and then after – surgery. His hearty laughter, wicked humor and continuous positive outlook will be sorely missed. Whoever penned his memorial words did a fabulous job of encapsulating his life.
Gloria Walker
11 Jun 2020I’m so very sorry to hear about Pat! I knew Pat & family from Sterling Acres Baptist Church. He was such a friendly, wonderful guy who always had that big smile whenever he talked to you. Your family will be in my prayers in this tremendous loss.
Carla
11 Jun 2020My Dear Brother, You lit up every room you entered. Your always smiling face, the love for your family and love for life itself were just a few of your attributes. My heart is forever broken and I love you more than you’ll ever know. Well see each other again someday and how joyous that will be. Spread your wings and fly high, as you have truly earned them. Until Then