Billy M. Cox


Billy (Bill) Merlyn Cox, 85, of Blue Springs, Missouri passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, June 27, 2018.   A celebration of Bill’s life will be held at his home, 2714 South Lowe Road, Blue Springs, Missouri on Saturday, October 13, 2018.  His children are hosting an open house from 12:00 pm to 5:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to “MO Conservation Heritage Foundation – Burr Oak Woods in Memory of Bill Cox” PO Box 366 Jefferson City, MO 65102-0366. 

Bill was born May 22, 1933, on the family farm in the Rock Creek Township of Jasper County, Iowa to Floyd Alvin and Elizabeth Jane (Koon) Cox. He would later tell stories to his children of sleeping on the open oven door on cold nights, of working a team of mules and his pet raccoon Skeezer, who would accompany him while riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle.  Bill lived with his older sister in town while attending Grinnell Community Senior High School.  He later sold the motorcycle to buy his future bride, Charlotte Ilene Garwood, a wedding ring.  Their marriage took place on October 12, 1952, at the Little Brown Church in Nashua, Iowa lasting 59 years until Charlotte’s death on July 5, 2012. 

Charlotte was able to accompany Bill during his enlistment of service in the US Army, living in Laupheim, Germany, where he worked in the motor pool disassembling tanks for transfer to the newly rearmed German Army.  Upon Bill’s discharge, they returned to Iowa for a few years where he worked on a farm, at a filling station, and operated a bulldozer, before moving to Kansas City, Missouri, to attend Central Technical Institute. Bill went in to the trade of garage door installation and service and after the unexpected death of his business partner, he became shop foreman at Delden Garage Door Manufacturing until his retirement in 1998. Although he never really retired, he returned to running his own installation and service business, with loyal customers keeping him busy until shortly before his death.     

In 1973, Bill built a house for his wife and five children on 7+ acres in Eastern Jackson County, Missouri.  Bill was an exceptional carpenter, understanding all the trades required to build a home and did most of the work himself.  He was also a very resourceful mechanic and maintained farm equipment at the home.  Later, as his children started to drive, he taught them how to maintain and repair their own vehicles.  The children enjoyed growing up on the acreage with an assortment of pets and farm animals to play with and care for.  Bill and Charlotte always maintained a productive garden and grew an impressive array of shade trees. The home they built remained the center of all extended family activities until their deaths.  

Bill and Charlotte traveled extensively, visiting at least 38 countries and all 50 states.  They also volunteered at Burr Oak Woods Conservation Nature Center, each completing more than 2,500 hours of service.  Bill continued to volunteer after Charlotte’s death, building and maintaining blue bird houses, wrapping bare root sapling trees, helping with summer skills camp and trash pickup along a stretch of Pink Hill Road that was adopted in Charlotte’s honor.  

Bill enjoyed going to car and tractor shows and he could spend hours telling stories about the ones he had owned throughout his life. Over the past few years, he acquired a few that are similar to those he had owned in the past. 

He was preceded in death by his wife; parents; and siblings, Lois, Everett, Larry, Darla, and Doyle of Rogersville, MO who passed away on September 3, 2018.  

Bill is survived by his five children, Kristy Cox of Littleton, CO, Steven Cox of Kansas City, MO, Linda (Cox) Dugan and husband Alan of Lee’s Summit, MO, Michael Cox and fiancée Dawn Poellot of Liberty, MO, and Gary Cox and partner Mary Beth Brown of Columbia, MO; five grandchildren, Staci Dugan, Kyler Cox and partner Jenny Nguyen, Austin Dugan, Kayleigh Cox and Christopher Cox; two great-grandsons, Micah and Niko; siblings, Janet Wilderdyke of Woodbine, IA, Carol Kinney of Garland, TX, and Donnie Cox of Tama, IA; and his Wheaten Terrier, Toby. 

Arrangements:  Royer Funeral Home, Grain Valley, MO   816-847-4441

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  1. Uncle Bill was the greatest at everything he sat out to do. He was an excellent family man and an example to all of what it was like to be a good, honest , hardworking person. To me, he was an amazing Uncle and my Dad’s best friend who treated my Sons as if they were his Grandchildren and my Wife like a Daughter. Losing Bill, much like Losing Charlotte, and even more recently, my Dad, has broken all of our hearts, but we know that their reunion has been sweet. Our Love and prayers go out to all of our loved ones at this time. We love you all so much. – David, Sherry, Dustin, Jared and Sarah

  2. I first met Bill when I began working for Delden in may of 1979. That was my first full time job after College. Bill instilled a work ethic in me that lasted for decades. I worked closely with him for 12 years. I was young and we did not always see eye to eye. But I respected him. I grieve with his family and will miss the thought of Bill working hard out there for someone or somewhere. Because that’s what he did. – Brad Williamson

  3. Bill was an awesome, kind, caring man who would give the shirt off his back if you needed it. He also had the best smile and beautiful blue eyes that he passed to his kids. He was a great Dad & Grandpa and also very fun. I will never forget our cruising together and watching he and Charlotte battle the big waves in St Martin or when the cruise ship had to wait for he and Charlotte to get back to the ship. LOL He will be missed by many and never forgotten. – DeeDee Arps

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